Britney Spears, Pamela Anderson had their trauma exploited. What it means to hear their side.

Written by on April 8, 2022

  • For years, Britney Spears and Pamela Anderson have been mistreated and exploited.
  • Now, they’re reclaiming their narratives: Spears is writing a memoir, and Anderson introduced a documentary.
  • Consultants in trauma, gender and media say it is damaging when others inform your story for you.
  • Nonetheless, taking management over your narrative is a liberating a part of trauma restoration.

Practically 20 years later, we’re lastly acknowledging how we have failed Britney Spears and Pamela Anderson. Just lately, the #FreeBritney movement together with documentaries like “Framing Britney Spears” uncovered how the media exploited Spears and her psychological well being, and “Pam & Tommy” revisited the sexist mistreatment of Anderson after her intercourse tape was stolen. 

However there’s nonetheless an issue: These tales have been advised by others, with out the permission of the ladies they’re about.

In Might, Spears criticized the “hypocritical” documentaries surrounding her life, and equally, “Pam and Tommy” received backlash for failing to acquire the consent of Anderson in its dramatized retelling. 

“Anytime a girl’s voice is taken away from her, that takes energy away from her. And whether or not they meant to try this is a distinct story, however the truth that Pamela and Britney did not have that company and voice is certainly an issue,” says Stefanie Davis Kempton, an assistant professor of communication at Penn State Altoona.

However now, Spears and Anderson are setting the report straight – on their very own phrases. On Monday, Spears confirmed she’s writing a book, and final month Anderson stunned followers by announcing her upcoming Netflix documentary. Neither has introduced launch dates or official titles. 

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Consultants say it is vital that these high-profile girls are lastly taking again their narratives, as a result of doing so generally is a essential step in therapeutic from trauma.  

“It is your story to inform, and it does not belong to anybody else. So when that is taken from you, it is painful. It is traumatic,” says Jessica MacNair, a licensed skilled counselor. “So for (Britney and Pamela) to reclaim that and do it on their very own phrases is inspiring and even therapeutic.”

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Most individuals cope with traumatic experiences privately. However celebrities like Spears and Anderson do not have that luxurious. 

The 2021 FX documentary “Framing Britney Spears” dived into the singer’s battle to regain management of her life and prompted popular culture followers to reconcile with the general public mistreatment of Spears. Practically a yr later, the Hulu biographical drama series “Pam and Tommy” revisited the viral fallout of the “Baywatch” star’s stolen intercourse tape that was leaked within the ’90s.

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Kempton, who makes a speciality of girls’s illustration within the media, says efforts to revenue from their tales with out their consent are inherently “exploitative” and “damaging” – intentional or not. 

“Most instances when somebody is speaking for you, they’re additionally speaking over you,” she says. “So even when there are good intentions in telling another person’s story, taking away their voice in favor of your personal is definitely doing a disservice.”

Celeb or not, all survivors of trauma have a proper to course of their previous at their very own tempo, in their very own phrases.

Carla Manly, a scientific psychologist and creator of “Joy from Fear,” provides that having others inform your story for you might be re-traumatizing. It is triggering to relive your previous unexpectedly, and it could actually add trauma in case your story has been misunderstood, phrased inappropriately or advised inaccurately.

“All of us have the suitable to work by means of our trauma at our personal tempo. As soon as it is taken out of our management, not solely does it take away from the therapeutic course of, however it could actually additionally really feel violating and re-traumatizing,” Manly says. “It might probably add this new trauma of: ‘Oh my God, that is not what occurred to me. I am not being seen or understood.'”

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In a now-deleted Instagram submit, Spears acknowledged it was “laborious citing previous occasions in my life” whereas writing her memoir. However she stated it is also “therapeutic and therapeutic.”

“I’ve by no means been capable of specific brazenly!!! I can solely think about that I do sound infantile however I used to be extraordinarily younger with these occasions passed off,” she wrote Monday. 

Although it is inconceivable to erase trauma, specialists say, revisiting and processing your previous is a crucial part of recovery.

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“One of many major causes folks wish to write or speak about their trauma is to create an understanding of their interior story. Working by means of all of the darkish moments, making sense of it – that alone might be deeply therapeutic,” Manly says.

MacNair provides that it is also empowering to take again management of your narrative, particularly when it was exploited by others. As an illustration, Anderson referred to herself as “not a sufferer however a survivor” when selling her documentary, which includes archival footage and exclusive interviews

“If you expertise trauma, it feels violating and there is a lack of management, so with the ability to take a few of that again by sharing or not sharing what you need by yourself phrases might be liberating and therapeutic,” MacNair says. 

Are we too late?

Sadly, Spears and Anderson are solely two victims of a much bigger downside in Hollywood. 

When Spears shaved her head on the peak of her profession, she was met with ridicule relatively than compassion. And within the midst of a violating second in her life, Anderson was additional objectified and sexualized.

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The #FreeBritney movement inspired many fans to seek justice for Britney Spears, who faced ridicule by the public and media in the 1990s.

And a few query how a lot progress we have actually made since. Juliet Williams, a professor of gender research on the College of California, Los Angeles, argues that ladies should not really feel the necessity to expose intimate particulars of their lives, even when there’s energy in Spears and Anderson sharing their tales. 

“These girls are caught in a double bind the place the selection is to be exploited by others or self-exploit,” Williams says. “I completely endorse, assist and have fun the transfer away from objectification, however I do not suppose the ultimate place we wish to get to is for ladies to reveal themselves as a way to be handled with respect and dignity. That is not what true autonomy and liberation is.”

However specialists are hopeful it is a begin.

“Having two big names, worldwide ones like Britney and Pamela, prepared the ground is a extremely nice begin to having girls take a step again and say, ‘No, I’ll inform my story,'” Kempton says. “The extra individuals are like that, the extra folks will settle for that this mistreatment is unacceptable.”

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