Cynthia Bailey Talks Self Care For Working Moms
Written by BET on May 7, 2021
If you’re a fan of the Real Housewives of Atlanta, you might be in for a deal with. Supermodel and entrepreneur Cynthia Bailey, who made her first look on the present in season 3, is usually the one particular person on the sequence who tries to maintain the peace amongst the ladies and is never on the middle of drama.
Maybe that’s as a result of when she’s not taping, the 54-year outdated mannequin turned entrepreneur is pursuing a number of companies and partnerships together with her modeling company, her line of eyewear, turning into a model ambassador with Seagram’s Escapes and her newest enterprise, the Bailey Wine Cellar.
In an interview with BET.com, Bailey talks about how she’s in a position to stability all of it. Along with being a brilliant concerned mother to her 21-year outdated daughter, Noelle Robinson, and newly married to tv persona, Mike Hill.
BET.com: You appear busy with the present and all of your different ventures. How do you navigate all of it?
Cynthia Bailey: We normally movie for six months after which additionally put it up for sale. So it may be arduous as a result of after I give attention to one thing, I like to present it my full consideration—being a perfectionist, I wish to make it possible for I’m invested in each minute. So, once we’re filming Actual Housewives, it is my primary precedence, and as quickly as we’re completed, I bounce into checking on all my different companies and new initiatives. However it’s a blessing to have this job as a result of it has afforded me different alternatives.
BET.com: How do you then stability all of these alternatives along with your private life?
Bailey: I can communicate for myself and likewise my castmates; that’s one in every of our greatest struggles looking for stability. What’s useful for me is simply having an understanding youngster. Her dad is actor Leon [Leon Robinson, The 5 Heartbeats and Cool Runnings], who has been within the leisure business his entire life. I used to be a mannequin earlier than the present, we’ve all the time been within the enterprise in a roundabout way since she was born, and he or she’s come on the present with me when she was eight years outdated, and now she’s 21. So, she will get it. It does not imply that Leon and I do not dwell in a ball of guilt at instances. However although we weren’t all the time there, we all the time made certain she was taken care of. I’m doing this for her and my household. However in fact, there are occasions when I’m exhausted, and I’m newly married, however my household is knowing. We make it work.
BET.com: Like many working mothers, you might have loads happening, and you might be used to doing a lot; what do you do particularly for your self?
Bailey: I deal with myself alongside the best way as a lot as I can. I actually get pleasure from a very good mani and pedi. I find time for that after per week, and I get the works. I ask for the new stones, a leg therapeutic massage. I really like getting massages. It is vital to reset and reboot as a result of you’ll burn out. And I can not present as much as work and inform them, ‘hey, I am sorry, I do not really feel like working.’ I’ve to indicate up and on this present, present out, more often than not. I additionally get facials. I like yoga, meditating, taking walks, and typically it is nearly being alone. That would imply watching back-to-back films on Netflix and simply ordering from DoorDash. There may be a lot energy in being nonetheless.
BET.com: Inform me a bit about your collaboration with Seagram’s Escapes? Why this partnership?
Bailey: The partnership with Seagram’s Escapes began in 2018. It’s actually a blessing. Seagram’s, and I didn’t solely wish to create my unbelievable Peach Bellini, which is among the prime sellers you guys noticed play out within the launch on The Actual Housewives of Atlanta, however we needed to assist to empower girls, one thing that’s vital to me.
After we began this partnership, we instantly hooked up a girl empowerment portion to the whole lot we do. As a Black girl, I perceive the worth of different Black girls empowering me, so I wish to make it possible for I do the identical for others, and Seagram’s has been wonderful in supporting my efforts.
As an entrepreneur and a enterprise proprietor of a number of companies, all of us wrestle, even earlier than the pandemic. So many are struggling now. I really like that I can have a dialog with Seagram’s and we will work out a technique to do our half. That is how the Seagram’s Escapes market was created. We had been in a position to give $10,000 grants to a few Black-owned companies. I care about folks, I care concerning the world, and I care about empowering different girls.
BET.com: Can we sit up for every other partnerships?
Bailey: I’ve some issues popping out, however I can not discuss them proper now. Plus, I’m specializing in my marriage. My wine cellar is again open although we struggled by the pandemic like everybody else, but it surely’s open and doing nicely. And relating to partnerships, I really like working with my husband, we’ve plenty of issues that we plan on working collectively, and I am enthusiastic about that.
The factor that folks do not realize, as somebody who’s been working since I used to be 17 years outdated, I’ve all the time needed to achieve success, and I’ve all the time been ready to do the work to remain profitable, however there’s one thing nice about having your finest good friend, and your husband and create some nice issues collectively. I wish to do some issues with Mike, the person who, you understand, I plan on spending the remainder of my life with.
BET.com: How have you ever developed because you began on the present?
Bailey: I feel one of many issues which have saved me on the present which explains why I have been in a position to be on the present for over a decade at this level is that I by no means overpassed who I’m as an individual. I did not attempt to be one thing else. I got here on the present, and I gave you guys me, no matter that appeared preferred: profitable at instances or going by monetary points, damaged marriage, friendships, damaged friendships, motherhood, and the whole lot that goes with that. I all the time attempt to stand in my reality of who I’m, even when it is not as entertaining. I’m on a platform the place drama can work. Every part I’ve completed on the present is how I’d have dealt with them had been I not on the present. I do me. I’ve all the time been true to myself.
Final yr, Seagram’s Escapes and Cynthia Bailey started a nationwide empowerment tour to host girls leaders at faculties and universities. There’s a digital tour coming this yr.
This interview has been edited for readability.
The Momosa for Mom’s Day
four components Seagram’s Escapes Peach Bellini
2 components Glowing Wine
Mix and serve in a champagne flute
Recipe courtesy of Seagram’s Escapes.